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Benefits of Adoption in Missouri [Create a Better Future]

Pros and Cons of Adoption

Adoption is a brave and heroic decision to create a better future for yourself and your baby. The benefits of adoption in Missouri are many, and we want to help you experience all of them. 

You can get more information on adoption benefits in Missouri by calling 1-800-ADOPTION. You will get connected to a trusted and experienced adoption specialists and quickly begin creating a personalized adoption plan tailored to your every need. 

First, it’s important to understand that adoption is never “giving up” on your baby. Instead, you are making a courageous and loving decision to give your child the best chance to live a life full of opportunity. 

That makes you a hero

We’ve helped heroic birth mothers like you create better futures through adoption for more than 30 years. We can’t wait to help you. 

As you consider choosing adoption for your baby, here are some of the incredible benefits of adoption in Missouri. 

Pros of Adoption in Missouri 

Adoption is a big decision. You might be asking, “What are the benefits of giving a baby up for adoption in Missouri?” The pros of adoption are numerous, and because birth mothers like yourself consider adoption for various reasons, adoption benefits whatever circumstance you’re facing. 

Later in this article, we’ll discuss the cons of adoption and the many misconceptions and negative perceptions of placing a child for adoption. 

First, let’s take a look at the many pros of adoption in Missouri. 

Don’t forget to call 1-800-ADOPTION to get connected to an adoption specialist immediately! 

Create an Adoption Plan and Choose the Adoptive Family [You’re in the Driver’s Seat] 

Did you know that one of the most significant benefits of adoption in Missouri is getting to hand-pick the adoptive family

When you choose adoption, you get to create an adoption plan that gives you the chance to choose everything about a potential adoptive family

Some of the identifiable attributes and preferences you can specify include: 

  • The age of the family 
  • Type 
  • Race 
  • Religion  
  • Lifestyle 
  • Sexual orientation 
  • Hobbies and interests 
  • And more 

Kristen, a birth mother, expressed her preferences for a family and eventually found Stephen and Jill. 

“They came to my house and as soon as they got here, we did nothing but talk for hours upon hours until it was time to go out to eat,” Kristen said. “We talked more and more. It was almost as if we knew each other. Weeks went by, we kept exchanging emails and phone calls. As I began to process, I realized this family I chose, and I have a PERFECT match. I appreciate everything American Adoptions has done for me and brought a wonderful addition to my family into my life.” 

You can find the perfect match for your baby by calling 1-800-ADOPTION. Your adoption specialist will help you create an adoption plan that includes listing the important identifiable information you’re looking for in a prospective adoptive family

Aside from finding the perfect adoptive family, what are some more birth mother benefits in adoption?  

Creating a Better Future for Your Child 

When it comes to reasons why adoption is a good thing, creating a better future for your child is at the top of the list. 

Sharon chose adoption for her unplanned pregnancy later in life, knowing she couldn’t give her child the life she deserved. 

“I couldn't manage four kids alone at this time in my life. I knew I wasn't prepared to give her the love, attention and life she deserved,” she said. “I love her with all my heart, just like my other kids. The life she has now will be charmed. Her mom and dad think the sun rises and sets for her.” 

You are making the brave and loving decision to find an adoptive family better prepared to give your child the best life possible. Your choice to give your child that opportunity is one of the most important birth mother benefits in adoption in Missouri.  

Remember, you can get connected to an adoption specialist right now by calling 1-800-ADOPTION. We have hundreds of adoptive families waiting for the chance to give your child the life you want for them. 

You Can Avoid Struggling as a Single Parent 

Suppose you’re a single parent and have a complex relationship with the birth father. In that case, adoption benefits you by alleviating the pressure and sacrifices you need to make as a parent. 

Did you know adoption benefits birth mothers by improving the potential for success later in life?  

Take it from Katie, who chose adoption at 21 years old to continue focusing on her personal goals

“I was 21 at the time, and I was struggling in every way imaginable and couldn't bear the thought of not being able to give my child the love and needs he deserves,” she said. “I wanted to get back in college, get a good job, and raise him the way I had been loved and taken care of.“  

“I was able to weigh the pros and cons of my situation and came to the conclusion that was best for my baby and me.” 

Studies have shown women facing single parenthood like yourself who chose adoption were more likely to: 

  • Finish school 
  • Avoid living in poverty and rely on public assistance 
  • Get married and less likely to get divorced 
  • Remain employed or find employment a year after the baby was born 
  • And more 

Those are just a few of the many birth mother benefits in adoption in Missouri.  

Do you want more information on the advantage of adoption and how you can give your child the best life possible while improving your future? Call 1-800-ADOPTION or get connected with us online today! 

Have a Lifelong Relationship with Your Child Through Open Adoption 

Just because you’re placing your child for adoption doesn’t mean your connection ends.  

Openness means you get to form a lifelong relationship with your child, which is a tremendous adoption benefit. 

Also, your child can avoid identity issues later in life because he or she will know who you are why you made the choice of adoption. 

Because you get to hand-pick the adoptive family, you’ll have the chance to bond and form a relationship with them, beginning with your first meeting. Remember, you’re in charge of your adoption, so you can decide exactly how much openness you prefer

These are some of the ways our birth mothers choose to stay connected with the adoptive family and child: 

  • Letters 
  • Emails 
  • Pictures 
  • Social media 
  • Phone calls 
  • Video chats 
  • In-person meetings 

Randi, a birth mother, cherishes her continued relationship with her baby and adoptive family through open adoption. 

“Every picture, it brightens my day. There are two things I check every day, the blog and my Facebook,” Randi said. “When I see a random picture that she puts on there, it just makes me feel like she’s not forgetting about me, and keeping up with what she said she was going to do.” 

“I love still being able to have that connection with Juniper,” she said. “I get all jittery thinking about it because it’s going to blow my mind when she’s five and she starts talking, and I can actually talk to her and have a conversation with her.” 

Want more information about open adoption? Call 1-800-ADOPTION and speak to one of our trusted and experienced specialists about pros of adoption in Missouri, including open adoption. 

What about the benefits of adoption for the child? Next, we’ll talk about how adoption benefits your child and how it positively impacts their future.  

Adoption Benefits for the Child in Missouri [Avoid Identity Issues] 

Because you’re making the heroic decision to give your baby the best life possible, these are just a few of the many advantages of adoption in Missouri for your child.

  • A safe and loving home with an adoptive family 
  • A life full of opportunity 
  • Your child knowing where he or she came from and why you chose adoption 

Having the chance to grow up in a safe and loving home with a family you chose gives your child the opportunity and resources you might not be able to provide. 

We know you want what’s best for your child. The chance to grow up in a two-parent home provides stability. It serves as an important advantage of adoption in Missouri. 

Take it from Scott Mars, founder of American Adoptions and an adoptee himself.    

"My mom and dad were a couple who weren't able to become a mom and dad without adoption. Of all people in this world, my mom and dad deserve to be parents. And without adoption, they would not have been able to share their love, share their life, and give someone the life that I had.        

"Because of adoption, my life was filled with love and opportunity."  You can watch Scott's video to see his entire adoption story. 

It’s perfectly OK if you’re worried about whether your child will know you later in life or if they’ll understand why you chose adoption. Luckily, open adoption is a way to make sure your child recognizes you as an important person in his or her life. You’ll have every opportunity to explain your adoption decision and you might be surprised at how understanding and thankful your child will be. 

You can get more information on the benefits of adoption for the child when you call 1-800-ADOPTION. We’re ready for the chance to help you create a better future for yourself and your baby through adoption. 

Misconception and Stigma Surrounding Adoption: Are There Cons of Adoption in Missouri? 

Beginning in the 1980s, the stigma around adoption changed dramatically. Instead of an anonymous decision based on fear and judgment, adoption became what it's always been: a brave and loving decision to create a better future

The idea that adoption is a bad thing — that it’s forcibly taking a baby from a mother or that your child would feel bad about it — couldn’t be further from the truth. 

  • Adoption is your decision – You are the only person that can choose adoption for your baby. No one should ever force you into making this decision. You are in the driver’s seat when you work with our agency, and we do everything we can to make sure your every need is addressed. 
  • You can explain your adoption decision – As we stated above, you and your child have the chance to bond through open adoption. At some point down the road, you’ll have the opportunity to tell your child about your heroic decision to find a more stable environment and a life full of opportunity that you weren’t ready to provide. Your child is more likely to be understanding of your decision. 
  • The cons of adoption – Some birth mothers may struggle with the decision to “give up” a baby for adoption. Often, the decision to have a closed adoption makes the process more difficult, particularly in coping post-placement. It’s important to contact our adoption specialists so that you can make the most informed decision possible. 

Adoption is your decision to make. We are here to provide you with the support and services you need to have a safe and life-changing experience of giving your child the best life possible. 

Are You Ready to Experience the Many Benefits of Adoption in Missouri? 

As soon as you pick up the phone and dial 1-800-ADOPTION, you get immediately connected to an adoption specialist ready to take you through every step of the adoption process

Your experience is important to us. We can’t wait to help you find the perfect adoptive family for your baby. 

What else do we provide you? 

Birth mothers like Alexandra had the opportunity to experience the many benefits of adoption with our agency. We want the same for you. 

“It is with great pleasure that I share with you this story. Although it has been five years, my experience with American Adoptions cannot be forgotten. I cannot express how blessed I feel to have found an agency so genuinely sincere in their efforts to ease the process of adoption,” she said. 

So, what are the benefits of giving a baby up for adoption in Missouri? 

  • Giving your child the chance to have a life full of opportunity 
  • Giving yourself a chance to focus on your personal goals  
  • Finding not just a family but the right family for your baby 
  • And more 

Call us today or connect with us online. There, you can ask Michelle, a birth parent and one of our adoption specialists, ready to answer all of your important adoption questions. 

“I am available to answer any questions that arise, particularly from birth moms, as I have been in your shoes and know how you are feeling,” Michelle said. “It was most helpful to me when I had someone to talk to who would just listen to me without making any judgments or conclusions about who I was as a person.”        

You deserve the chance to work with the best adoption agency that prioritizes your needs. We can’t wait to meet you. 

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